Friday, July 24, 2009

The Pawn in Someone Else's Game

Hello Everyone!

This week is "Shabbat Chazon." It is called this because the first word of the Haftarah is "chazon," or "vision." It's about a vision that the prophet Yesheyahu had, and he laments over the causes of the destruction of the Beit Hamikdash. This coming week is supposed to be a week of improvement on all our parts because we want to repair the destruction that occurred in our land close to 2,000 years ago. As we all know, our Rabbis teach us that the second Beit Hamikdash was destroyed because there was baseless hatred between the people; we just weren't nice people. Furthermore, Chazal also teach us that in every generation that the Beit Hamikdash was not rebuilt, it is as though is was destroyed during that generation. Which means, we should really be feeling as if the Beit Hamikdash was destroyed in our very days. Remember September 11th? That event is really real to me because I was alive when it happened. It's not just a historical event, but I experienced it. It should be the same with the Beit Hamikdash.
This week, try to give a little love. Try to dish out baseless love. Don't ask questions. Don't be nice only to those who deserve it, but to everyone. Just for one week. Try it. Love people irrationally. Help bring back the Beit Hamikdash.

"You shall not bother Moav and you shall not provoke war with them, for I shall not give you an inheritance from their land..." (Devarim 2:9)
Hashem tells us in this week's parasha that we will not be able to ever conquer land that belongs to Moav. If we want a land that belongs to them, forget about it.

Let's back-track a little bit. In the end of parashat Chukat, the Torah says, "The poets [ha'moshelim] would say, 'Come to Cheshbon! Let it be built and established as the city of Sichon'" (Bamidbar 21:27).
The word "moshelim" - "poets", comes from the word "mashal" - "parable." Poets are the ones who make analogies, metaphors, personifications, and parables. The simple understand of the passuk is that during that time, when the Jewish nation was conquering one city after another on its way to the Promised Land, everyone was talking about it. Everyone was writing about our military operations and covert missions. When we conquering Cheshbon, which was a city that belonged the Sichon (the King of Emori), the poets spoke about that conquest, as well.
Our Sages interpret this passuk in a different way, in addition to its simple meaning. The word "moshel" can also mean a ruler - one who rules or reigns over something. "These [moshelim] are those people who rule over their [evil] inclinations. 'Come, let us think about the matters and calculations of the world. [Let us compare] the loss one undergoes when doing a mitzvah in respect to its reward and the reward one receives when refraining to sin in respect to the loss one undergoes by transgressing the sin'" (Baba Batra 78b).
What were these moshelim saying? When the righteous people, who completely ruled over their evil inclinations, saw what happened to Sichon and the entire city Cheshbon, their initial reaction was, "Let's start thinking. Let's take an account (cheshbon) of everything we are doing and make sure that we are on the right path. Let us make sure that we are never sinning. And even in the things we are doing correctly, let us make sure we are doing them with our utmost ability, not slacking off at all. How will we come to such yearning to do that which is correct? We will weigh out both sides. If, right now, I have the choice to do a mitzvah, let me think about the advantages and disadvantages. How much will I lose by doing this mitzvah? Will I have to buy some things? On the contrary, how much will I gain by doing the mitzvah? How great are the everlasting rewards that are promised to me in the eternal world to come? Is it worth it to exchange a couple dollars for eternity? The same comparison should be done with negative mitzvot. How much eternal reward will I receive for refraining from transgressing this sin at hand? How much momentary pleasure will I actually gain by committing it?
In any event, there is a lot to think about regarding this interpretation of this passuk. "Let's start thinking."
The question arises: What does this have to do with anything? Why are we learning about "taking account for our spiritual lives" from this passuk? This passuk has to do with the military conquests of the Jewish nation before entering Israel! Is there a connection merely because the name of the city was "Cheshbon," which means "an accounting or calculation?"
I once heard someone make a beautiful connection.
This city, Cheshbon, wasn't always under the rule of Sichon (the Emorite King). It used to belong to Moav.
"Cheshbon, was the city of Sichon, king of the Emorite; he went to war against the first king of Moav and took all his land from his control." (Bamidbar 21:26)
This is significant because the Jewish nation was not allowed to conquer any land from Moav, by the order of Hashem, as we see in this week's parasha.
So in truth, we were never allowed to get our hands on Cheshbon. Cheshbon belongs to Moav, and we are not allowed to take anything from them. However, once the Emorites took Sichon from Moav, there was no longer anything holding us back from conquering Cheshbon. It no longer belonged to Moav. Therefore, we conquered Cheshbon. Sichon was serving as a pawn in the Jewish nation's battles, to help us achieve our goal of conquering Cheshbon. Initially, when Sichon took over the land from Moav, he definitely thought that he was invincible and an unbelievable leader. He definitely grew arrogant because he was amassing property while others were losing. But little did he know that his good fortune had nothing to do with him. It only happened to him so that someone else (the Jews) can reap the benefits. He was successful, only to give us what we want.
Now, you can understand that anyone who sees something like this will start thinking about it. Wow. Maybe there are good things happening to me. But why? Am I blessed because I deserve to be? Or am I just doing the hard work and amassing properties and assets just to hand it over to a more worthy fellow? Well, there's only one way to be sure that this is happening for me: "'Come, let us think about the matters and calculations of the world.'" Let us make sure that we are doing everything correctly and pleasing our Creator. Let us make sure that we are on the right path, and hopefully, not have to hand over our blessings to our enemies.
May we all merit to have the knowledge and intellect to be able to think about our spiritual lives, ensuring that we do what is right. May we all introspect properly, and through that, not only will ensure that we are not a pawn is someone else's life, but we will also make sure we are living with more of Hashem in our lives.

Shabbat Chazon Shalom!
May we all be enjoying a Yom Tov this coming Thursday and no longer be mourning the loss of the Beit Hamikdash.
Sincerely,
Avraham Adam Sabzevari


Last week's Torah Trivia
"If a man takes an vow to Hashem or swears an oath to establish a prohibition upon himself..." What is the difference between taking a vow or swearing an oath?
Simply put, a vow changes the status of the object, whereas an oath places an obligation only on the person. For example, you can make a vow against fruits, and the fruits will be like non-kosher. If you want to swear off sleeping for a night, that would have to be done with an oath.
A great difference between the two is the following. Let's say someone wants to bring a korban. He has a specific cow, called Cathy the Cow. If he makes a vow to bring Cathy as a korban, then if she dies, he no longer is obligated to bring a korban, because Cathy's status changed, but she's dead. On the contrary, if he made an oath to bring a korban, then the obligation is placed on him. If Cathy dies, he would have to bring another korban, like Bessy the Cow.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

I Told You So

Shalom Alecheim Le'Kulam!

Baruch Hashem! Life is great! We are living to see another day, to breathe another breath, and to sit by the computer another time. Thank G-d! The reason I'm saying this is that I don't want to start off on a morbid/sad thought. But now that I have started off on a happy note, let's speak a little about the time.
So we are now in the three weeks. We are starting to get a taste of mourning. Everyone should be feeling the lack of the Beit Hamikdash in his or her own way. If we refrain from doing everything that our Rabbis tell us not to do during this period of time, but we dread it and can't wait 'til it's over, then we are slightly missing the point. We aren't home. We aren't in our ideal state. We are currently being forced to lived under unnatural circumstances. Chazal teach us that if we don't share in with the pain of the nation, then we will not merit to witness the consolation and restoration of the nation. May we all take this time to really feel the lacking, feel the missing, reflect upon ourselves, and make a 180 turn to see the Beit Hamikdash this coming up Av.

Now, I know I normally go on for pages, but this week, I have a very short thought. I don't know why. Maybe it's because Israel is wearing off. I hope not. In any event, he it goes.
In the beginning of Parashat Matot, the Torah discusses the laws pertaining to vows and oaths. The passuk says:
"איש כי ידור נדר לה' או השבע שבועה לאסור איסר על נפשו לא יחל דברו ככל היוצא מפיו יעשה" - "If a man takes an vow to Hashem or swears an oath to establish a prohibition upon himself, he shall not desecrate his word; he should do whatever he says" (Bamidbar 30:2).
If you say you will do something, do not desecrate your word. Do not devalue your power of speech. Rather, when you say you'll do something, do it. Very simple.
The Biyala Rebbe from B'nei Barak has spent this past week in Great Neck. One night, between Mincha and Arvit, he offered an alternate understanding to this passuk. There are two clauses: "he shall not desecrate his word" and "he should do whatever he says." The first clause is talking about people. We shall not desecrate our words. We shall do everything we say and not abuse our ability to speak. And if we do that, if we take our words seriously and are careful about what we say, then He will do everything he says. Hashem will do everything that this guy says. (The second clause is referring to Hashem.) If an individual values his speech to a great extent, so much so that he will keep to his word, then Hashem will also take his word seriously. If he asks for something from G-d, He will grant it to him. If he gives someone a beracha, then the blessing will come true, just because he was the one who said it. In fact, this is why there is a huge minhag to get berachot from big tzaddikim. By virtue of the fact that they are saying this beracha, Hashem will make it come true.
May we all take our words seriously, never lie, and really appreciate how powerful our tongues can be. May we all keep to what we say. Furthermore, may we all refrain from speaking Lashon Hara, promote love amongst the Jews, and bring back the Beit Hamikdash to our home, Yerushalayim, Ir Hakodesh.


Torah Trivia
At the beginning of this week's parasha, the passuk is, ""If a man takes an vow to Hashem or swears an oath to establish a prohibition upon himself..." What is the difference between taking a vow or swearing an oath?

Last week's Torah Trivia
If you have a natural inclination towards blood, what are two mitzvot that you should involve yourself with?
Answer: The two I had in mind were Shochet (a kosher butcher) and Mohel (one who gives berit milah). Other responses were doctor and surgeon. All are correct.

Thank you very much!
Shabbat Shalom!
Take care of yourself.
Sincerely,
Avraham Adam Sabzevari


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Thursday, July 9, 2009

"An Identified Problem is a Problem Half-Solved"

Hello Everyone!
And so it is. I am back in The States. Back to reality. Back to the streets of Great Neck. Sleeping during the days, awake all night. It's too early to reminisce, so I won't. But I miss it already.
As I've been long speaking about, this week is the first week that Israel and America have the same weekly portion - Parashat Pinechas. Therefore, to celebrate such an occasion, I will speak about Parashat Vayechi. [You'll see what I'm doing. The jet-lag has me tired, but I'm not completely crazy.] There will also be a trivia question later on.
The following is a D'var Torah that I heard from Rabbi Moshe Stavsky, the Menahel at HANC.
In Parashat Vayechi, Yaakov Avinu blesses his children while on his death-bed. His twelve sons gather around to hear their father's final words. They are expecting inspiring words that will affect their futures. They patiently wait to learn what the future has in store for them. We won't go into all of the specifics, but we will discuss the so-called "blessing" he gives to the dynamic-duo, Shimon and Levi.
"כי באפם הרגו איש...ארור אפם כי עז, ועברתם כי קשתה" - " For in their rage they murdered people...Accursed is their rage for it is intense, and their wrath for it is harsh" (Bereshit 49: 6,7).
What's their blessing? That they be the leaders of their generations? Nope. Perhaps that they will persevere in everything it is that they decide to do? Try again. Maybe that they will merit to have many prophets come from them? Wrong.
Their blessing was that they get angry. Their blessing is that when these brothers get wrathful, look-out. There's no stopping them. Head-cases on the loose. They'll kill cities if they so please.
According to www.merriam-webster.com, "to bless: to confer prosperity or happiness upon." According to www.dictionary.com, "to bless: to request of G-d the bestowal of divine favor on." Blessings are supposed to be wishing good things upon someone. Blessings definitely don't have a negative connotation, and they certainly are not just stating facts! All Yaakov Avinu, in his wisdom, said was, "You get angry. Real angry. And when you are angry, it would be best for everyone else if they stayed home."
Where's the blessing? We see neither any indication of the future nor anything positive. Where's the blessing?
I think we will offer another definition to the infinitive "to bless." A blessing is not only something mystical that will give an individual super-natural powers. It doesn't only have to be a mere "request" of G-d to bestow divine favor on someone. A blessing can also be identifying one's strengths and weaknesses. A blessing can be the bestowing of knowledge upon an individual, informing him of what he is capable of doing. A blessing can be identifying one's problem.
When Yaakov Avinu was blessing Shimon and Levi, he was doing exactly this. He was telling Shimon and Levi, "You guys are very passionate. When you want something, no one can stand in your way. If you get angry and want to kill an entire city, consider it done. However, with great power comes great responsibility. (That's Yaakov's line.) If you are very passionate and enthusiastic, become the teachers. If you are very determined, then get up in front of the entire nation and do what you think is correct. If you are very zealous, then kill someone when he doing something terribly wrong in front of the entire nation. Channel your strengths and use them the right ways.
Okay. Let's go back to the future. In Parashat Pinechas (and in the end of Parashat Balak), Zimri ben Salu was having relations with a non-Jewish woman, Kozbi bat Sur. Zimri was the head of the tribe of Shimon. Why did he do such a crazy thing? If he was the leader, we would expect more of him! Why is he doing something that our religion demands that one give up his life before committing, and why was he doing it in the town square?
The entire Shevet Shimon was doing this. They were all having relations with non-Jewish woman. Zimri, as the leader, was very passionate and enthusiastic. He got up in front of the entire nation and showed that he agreed with how his tribe was behaving. He was giving his haskama by doing it himself. And he wasn't just gonna sit back and let others be doubtful of their actions. He got up and made sure everyone knew he agreed.
When Pinechas saw this, he couldn't tolerate it. He took out his spear and put an end to both Zimri and Kozbi's lives. He also was enthusiastic and passionate. He, too, was very zealous and did what he thought was right in the town square.
And who was Pinechas? The son of Elazar, who was the son of Aharon Hakohen, who was a descendant of Levi.
So it just so happens to be that Zimri and Pinechas come from Shimon and Levi. Both were passionate. Both were enthusiastic. And both were zealous. However, only one went in the right path. The other used his great attributes for terrible uses.
When Yaakov Avinu "blessed" Shimon and Levi, saying that they are very powerful and dangerous at the same time, he was warning them. He was telling them to use their power in the right way. As we have seen, Pinechas listened and was rewarded with rewards that we all wish to have. Zimri, on the other hand, did not.
[I'm also pretty sure I once heard that the teachers come from Shimon and Levi because of their enthusiasm in teaching. If you know what the source is for this, please let me know.]
May we all know what we are naturally gifted with. May we all recognize our strengths and weaknesses. And when we understand what we can do, may we all use those superior qualities in the right way. If we can identify our problems, then all our problems will be half-solved. After all, this is the best blessing we can ask for.
Torah Trivia: If you have a natural inclination towards blood, what are two mitzvot that you should involve yourself with?

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Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Witchcraft? Uhh, actually, I'm not sure...

Hello Everyone!

Yeshiva has ended about two weeks ago. There is a good group of guys who are still here, and I'm enjoying the extra time. It really is unbelievable. Also, school has ended, and summer programs have begun. I hope everyone is adjusting and will continue to adjust to his/her new schedule accordingly, if he/she has one, of course. If you have the same schedule, or just lack a schedule, I hope you enjoy that, too. I know if you lack one, you definitely will be enjoying. I always enjoy that.
In any event, while I am still in Israel, I am a week ahead of many of you who are currently residing in the US of A. I apologize for being a week early. It's not my fault. It has to do with the moon. Well, not really. Next week, America will have a double parasha whereas Israel will not, so we will be, once again, back together. Sorry for slacking off and not writing in the past couple weeks. I hope you enjoy it.

In this week's parasha, Parashat Chukat, we are introduced to the mitzvah of the "Parah Adumah," or the "Red Heifer." This mitzvah is the classic example of a "chok" - a mitzvah that we don't understand.
Quick summary of the process: Take a completely red cow, burn it together with other things, put its ashes in water, and sprinkle this water on someone who has become contaminated through touching a dead body (amongst other ways). The person who does the sprinkling must be pure during the process, and he will became impure as a result of this process.
Some of the questions that make this the biggest mystery in the Torah are: Why does it have to be completely red? Why is it burned together with cedar, hyssop, and a scarlet thread? The biggest question is, How does this process purify the contaminated and contaminate the pure at the same time? How is it that someone who is in need of purification needs this ash-water sprinkled on him, yet the guy who does the sprinkling becomes impure by doing it? That is just irrational! It doesn't make sense.
Or does it? Perhaps it doesn't make sense to me. Perhaps I don't understand it. But does that mean it doesn't make sense?
Well, we must mention that Shlomo HaMelech, the wisest of all men, admitted that he failed to understand the "parah adumah." The Midrash Yalkut Shimoni (759) writes that although he tried to understand it, its understanding was far from him. (See Kohelet 7:23)
Nevertheless, there are many commentators who suggest reasons and understandings for this mitzvah. And there are many explanations out there.I'm not going to mention any of them. Instead, I'll bring an awesome story that has a beautiful message. (Midrash Yalkut Shimoni)

A non-Jew asked a certain rabbi, R' Yochanan ben Zakkai, "Why do you Jews do the mitzvah of parah adumah if you don't believe in witchcraft? You bring the cow, burn it, grind it, and take its ashes. You sprinkle two or three drops on one of you who is contaminated with corpse defilement and say to him, 'You are clean.' This is witchcraft!"
R' Yochanan ben Zakkai said, "Have you ever been possessed by a demon?"
"No," he responded.
"Have you ever seen a man possessed by a demon?"
"Yes," he answered.
"And what do you do for him?"
The non-Jew explained, "We bring herbs, make them smoke beneath him, and throw water on him. The demon is then exorcised."
R' Yochanan said, "Let you ears hear your own words! Our spirit of contamination (tumah) is the same as your demon. We sprinkle water on it, and it is exorcised."
After the non-Jew left, R' Yochanan's students said, "You have pushed him away with the false answer, but what answer will you give us?"
R' Yochanan responded: "By your lives, neither does the dead body make someone impure nor does the water purify anyone. It's Hashem. It is Hashem's decree that makes people impure, and it is Hashem's decree that once again purifies him. It doesn't have to make sense. It doesn't have to be rational. It just has to be what Hashem said, and we have no right to violate it."

We learn an unbelievable message from this story. Sometimes, there are certain people that require a reason for everything. Everything must be rational. If our religion doesn't make sense, then it is disposable. And, we have many commentators who cater to the needs of certain people. Our Rabbis try to explain everything to everyone to help give us an understanding of what the Torah is about. But, at the end of the day, when the Rabbi was speaking to his own students, he told them straight it, "It doesn't make sense. But it doesn't have to make sense. If Hashem said a certain thing will make someone impure, then that makes sense. And if Hashem said the same thing will purify another, then that, too, makes sense.
Of course we are allowed to question the mitzvot and try to understand the ways of Hashem. Coming to a clear understanding will most certainly enhance our service and generate more enthusiasm in our performance of the mitzvot. Ultimately, however, we must know that our service must be a given - we do it even if we don't understand. Because Hashem said so, and we are sure that Hashem knows what He's doing.

Sabbatical Salutations to all! I hope you enjoy your mini-vacation.
Be in touch!
Sincerely,
Avraham Adam Sabzevari